The Sprinkle Is Going Off!

I'm getting married this november. My paternal grandmother hates my mother, and has always told me how ugly and stupid i am. I do not speak with her and haven't done so in years after she made some races comments regarding my future husband as he is mexican. The problem comes in when my dad insists that she come to the wedding. This screams elope, she should be asking me thes. Ind fant an enly a woman, so go figure that Shut out.