Vegan Weddings

My husband, 33 male and I, 28 female, are part of a friend group of four couples. One of the women in the group A 30s is vegan. When it's their turn to host, they serve vegan food. She has always been grateful for the fact that I do my best to make her feel included. Last time they hosted a dinner, the meal had soy sauce in it. I am very allergic to soy. So I decided fair is fair. I will no longer be making a whole different meal for her anymore.