So recently, a friend of mine and i were out having coffee, and weere just chatting about dating, and modern dating, dating aps. Mean, the wholegam. He's in his early forties, he's single, he's enjoying the dating world. Also had quite a few complaints about the dating world. And we got talking about what women want. And there's two things that i really want to talk about here, because, you know, he started to ask me, ou know, he said, conner, like you've worked with so many men over the years, helping them save their marriages and in relationships, and you've worked with couples, and you worked with women. He said, what do you think that women really want? And what do you think that en need to understand about women? And i said, well, that's, those are, those are two massive questions. And i said, first, i think that what we as men need to understand about women is that we don't understand women. And that's not our job to trying to figure them out, right? Like in a relationship, our work is not to try and figure out the women that we're with, you know? And there's this notion in the manisphere and certain pick up communities and dating advice and some of the dating coaches that i see that paint a picture that women are a certain way, that if you just act this way, that you'll get those results because women are this way, and that we as men have somehow figured out women. And it's just amazing, right? Like, what a beautiful notion that we as men have figured out thish figured out women. There's a very certain framework and andm lity that you need to follow, and if you just follow that modality, then you'll be successful with women. Because women are this way. And you can tell that theyrn to go through certain phases in their life. And it's universal. All women act this way. Ah, and so one of the things that i said to him was thin that we need to let go of the notion that we need to understand women fully.