Is It Rational for Me to Defend With You Um?

i have a kind of vague goal of being guided by the truth while maintaining the as long as i can possibly maintain it the stance of disagreeing with you. that in that framework you've talked about everything but conversation it's like look you could find out what other people think not because you're talking to them but somehow they're a little slip of paper falls back down and now i just update on that. I'm gonna let you respond and then i'm gonna um say other than i was saying i just want to acknowledge conversation is complicated  but we should distinguish sort of the beliefs you have in your head from the words you say, he says.