i want to challenge you by giving the exact opposite rank ordering that you gave. I'm goin o start with charm. But look, i didn't actually talk about this enough with my dad, right? If he meant being a gracious person, a great full person, an emphatic person, a socially intelligent person then i would say absolutely, that goes to number one. And when i that much more expansive list of things that are all thing interpersonal, does that change your rank ordering? I mean, yes. A word is just the name of something, and we all interpret that name differently.