What's an Example of a Parent's Subjective Experience?

I've had many, many a conversation where i'm talking to a person about how distracted they feel. They don't seem to be aware that they just halt and stop, and then are on the phone texting. Whereas like their subjective experience is, oh, it only took me one second to just reply to this thing. I'm not balsy enough to actually start at timer when that happens. But that's an example of what i mean, where the other person's subjective experience seems to not match up with what they think. The classic ample of this, like, before we all became slaves to our phones, would be when you had a friend who had a child and you would