The One Day Wager - I'm Not Having a Go at the Guy.

I wouldn't make that bet unless, like you say, you've become truly resigned to the possible. I'm not one of these peoplethat i really can't stand when people are like, oh, a man in his forties who still hasn't settled down, or whatever. It's like, giveming a break. You're not deficient because you don't want the same thing as everybody else. The problem occurs when you know that the person you're with doesn't know, doesn't want what you want fundamentally and you're allowing them to string you along in life. And it stops becoming their fault and it starts becoming our fault for not listening.