You Don't Like Christians or Doctors

In our group, you and I have policies that we've developed over years about how we talk about certain things. And maybe you have shared values with me that you don't have with the parameters are like 'within normal parameters' But in the culture at large, this idea that, okay, we're all talking about this right now,. Then we're not talking about it anymore because we decided pretty much what it what it is. Once it's in the ground, it's very hard to go back and review because of all of the stuff.