Cognitive behavior therapy is sort of the ballet of the willness world. If our central nervous system is out of whack, if our brain is in fight flight freeze, there is no amount of logic that will turn off your della when it's freaking out. And so understanding that our thinking work only works if our thinking brain is accessible. It's sort of like the wife on your computer. You could have the most amazing, custom built computer in the world, but if you dont have access to your wife, you're getting on the internet. Our brains are very much the same. We need to make sure our brain feels safe enough that it's not sending all of the adren
There are times in our lives where we feel stuck, be it personally or professionally. It might be in our career. It might in a relationship.
We’re smart, so we try to think our way out of it. But when we’re really stuck, thinking can turn into ruminating. And the more we think, the more we stay stuck. That’s when the labeling kicks in. The voice in our head labels us lazy, or crazy, or just plain unmotivated.
Today’s guest, Britt Frank, is a licensed specialist clinical social worker (LSCSW). She’s written the book, The Science of Stuck: Breaking Through Inertia to Find your Path Forward. Britt’s the perfect person to teach us how thinking our way forward may not be the right tool for the job. In this interview, she explains how we get stuck and steps we can take to move through it.
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Eustress vs Distress
Cognitive behavioral therapy
Brene Brown
Peter Levine and somatic experiencing
Carl Jung and the Shadow Side
Bessel van der Kolk
William Worden and the 4 Tasks of Grieving
The Sun Valley Wellness Festival
Do Hard Things by Steve Magness
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