I had a really good friend in seminary His name was john hide and he was an excellent athlete like he was gonna play division one. He's basically I don't know what the technical term is for it But like a quadriplegic or whatever, but he doesn't have really any ability to move. "If you can't figure out how to laugh at yourself and and make light and make jokes of even the darkest fucking dirtiest shit You're gonna go insane," says Travolta.