Do I Have the Opportunity to Make a Change?

It's important to keep drilling down and getting focused on where the behavior is actually a problem. And you also need to categorize it for yourself. Even if the issue was that i'm going out to dinner once a week with my partner, there are other values attached to that that might be more important than the financial or the spending aspect of this. So even though that might, on paper, seem like a problem that could easily be fixed, ifit important to me for other reasons, than it's not actually a problem that we need to address.