The Idea of Destiny, Is It Possible?

The idea of destiny, as you point out, is foris a term we don't use very often. Thes are kind of unfashionable ideas. But it's at least possible that what actually happens is the only thing that could have happened in any case. How do you think about this in terms of your own life? I do, i do feel it is possible to miss a tide in your life. And thereare great lines by the great german port rilke, where he's looking the garden in the autumn, and he says, he says, no more things will happen. Even you, my god.