Lakshmi: People look in the mirror and they're like, fuck. How do all these people, how are they ok with being big? It's because they're lying. They don't feel good a they're that big. And so you're looking at yourself in the mirr and it creates confusion for the person cusethe're like, 'There's something wrong with me' Lakshmi: The best ways to rebel against it is by being in shape, becoming financially self-sustaining,. Being personally excellent and being fit is part of being great.