Is It a Real Dilemma?

i was wondering if you could talk a little bit about the book's origin story. I've had the experience over years of seeing some sort of old, literally, high school kind of friends and acquaintances obviously going down a path towards conspiracy or extremism. And on occasion, the gentlest nudge from some one they haven't spoken to for, like, literally 30 years, can actuallyr stop the inertia and kind of push them back in the other direction. But at the same time, there's years and thousands of posts a being directed at the person and coming from them that can be very, very damaging in lots of different ways. So it is, it is a real dilemma to decide