Christian Marriage Advice - You've Lost the Plot

A lot of te christian marriage advice is that speak out loud the gratitude that you feel for him, or things that yo're grateful for. Or speak his love language, like, do all these things that make it look like you'r connecting. Yeh. So it's all these outward things, but you're not actually conecting an in fact, the more you have to act like you're totally in love and everything's fine,. And i'm calling ut the good in you, and i'm doing the things that i know that you like. The more we're not honest, yes, we're gaslighting ourselves, right? Because then the other person doesn't really