i hope younger feminists recapture some of that diy, do it yourself spirit. It's very hard to address domestic violence inn either partner in our isolation. We don't actually have a lot of solutions for people who are suffering moderate level constant domestic violence over several years. There's a time in feminism when there is no boundaries and everybody does it whatever they're doing. And i'm not one of those feminists - i've always felt the pressure to distance myself from that kind of thing.