How to Learn to Suffer Well, Says R

R says there is good suffering and bad suffering, that your attitude towards suffering is an act. God doesn't hate you, doesn't want you to suffer, doesn't will suffering directly, but allows evil. Why? Because he is working it for a greater good. And the only reason the God who loves you allows suffering into your life is because he loves you. This has the potentiality of working out for a greatergood, if you trust him.