Is Your Boyfriend Resistant to You?

"This is who you are. And your most intimate ed partner is somebody who refuses to see you for who you are and understand and hear what it's like to be in your body," she says. "You're going to have kids with a father who is blind to his own white privilege, who responds to every inevitable conversation about race with a kind of defensiveness", chaotic adds. 'i feel optimistic about the possibility of this relationship to survive, but not without your partner truly understanding you'