P pride is really a social emotion in the sense that what often what we're proud of are things that other people around us see as something important. You see this with kids all the time, you know, how you shape their behavior. And those are the things they internalize as being worthwhile. So for us, I would argue, pride historically served the function of making people want to develop skills that made them valuable to others.
What's the best way to build self-control, patience, productivity, and delayed marshmallow eating? For decades psychologists and economists have told us to develop traits like willpower and grit. But psychologist David DeSteno describes a better, easier, and more effective path--the emotions. We talk to David about his new (not-self-help) book "Emotional Success," which argues that the emotions of gratitude, pride, and compassion can help us fulfill long-term goals and (as a special bonus) make us happier and better people.
Plus, David and Tamler take a quiz that measures how utilitarian they are, and you won't believe the results!!! (Actually, you will.)
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