What Are the Things That I Want My Kids to Value?

In any relationship where I'm trying to demand somebody to do my thing, it causes problems. So she'll give me freedom space to pursue things I value. And yes, I want them to value the same things I am. If they can see that they actually make me happy, they're more likely to value them in the future. Does that make sense? Like anyway, rambling's with Russell. Hopefully you guys got something from this."