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Episode 186: Shame, DARVO & Spiritual Bypassing - Let's get to the bottom of it! ft. Jasmine Holmes

Bare Marriage

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The Three Faulty Gospels of Shame

Shame was something that belonged in my Christian walk as a reminder not to step out of line. I viewed shame as a frenemy of sorts, but surely it sanctified me as well. A lot of conservative Christians are maybe afraid of when they pick up my book because they're like, you want to get rid of shame? The second would be using it as a motivator, using it as motivation. And then the third way would be to put on other people what God gave us.

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