The Struggles of Nice Guys and Covert Contracts

Men today have a strange problem. Many of them are just too nice for their own good.

Doctor Robert Glover helps them fix that. Not so that they can become sociopaths or jerks. But so that they can become confident, assertive grown ups who don’t have to resort to manipulation or people pleasing to get their needs met.

We discuss what childhood experiences create nice guy syndrome, why nice guys are on the rise in the last 50 years and how to shift into men that women are actually deeply attracted to and more importantly that respect themselves

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⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

00:00 Intro

00:43 Nice Guy No More?

04:30 The Nice Guy Persona

09:15 How Childhood Uncomfortable Feelings Affect Adulthood

15:19 How Your Relationship Shapes Your Partner

17:47 Don’t Trade Your Purpose for Romance

22:43 Positive Emotional Tension

26:36 The Masculine and Feminine Polarity

30:12 We All Have Masculine and Feminine Energy Within Us

40:43 The Guilt of Returning the Favor Received

45:44 Hidden and Repressed Pleasure of Sexuality

55:22 How Do We Unwire Sexual Shame?

01:01:02 The Share-Test Method

01:05:52 You Control Your Own Sexuality

01:10:15 Take the Shame Away

01:18:50 Learn How to Defend Your Needs

01:22:40 The Concept of Differentiation

01:27:13 Staying Monogamous Without Sacrificing Sexual Freedom

01:32:06 Tension Between Being You and Meeting Your Partner’s Needs

01:34:39 Why Do Men Grow Up Pleasing Women?