Wanting for It What It Wants for Itself

When some of your friends or family bers tell you something that's going great for them, you miyht actually feel resentful deep down. This is really part of that point, about taking on its ogenda as your own. So what are the highest things that you want for yourselfs if i love you, then i should want those things for you too. The next point is wanting for it what it wants for itself.