When that idea was first introduced, i don't think it was a particularly liberal idea. We end up wanting to say sex, negative things about sex that i think is plainly consensual. But because we only have the consent paradime available to us, and what we do as we say it's non consensual. For me, the paradime case of this is a lot of professor student sex. So increasingly regulated in the us. An the near total, i mean, ther are total bands on professor, undergraduate student saxon at lots of universities. Surprisingly, not so much in the u k,. which i did not know really, not so Much in te uk.