Is a Vegan Alcohol-Free Wedding a Representation of Who You Are?

A vegan alcohol-free wedding doesn't sound fun to some people, it just doesn't. To me, it's such a victim complex, like, unaccustomed, forced. The line here, they feel like they won't be able to fully enjoy the wedding and that it is not a true representation of who they are. Like one day of not eating meat, is it gonna kill you?