The self-destructive side of yourself is just as important and intricate to your wholeness as your seemingly more positive or resourceful side. Successful people don't make the right decisions because successful people have shadows too. Knowing thyself is first, foremost, primary, foundational and means way more than anything else. When you're ready to be great, greatness shows up in front of your eyes. Feel the pain. You've got a broken ankle just feel the f***ing pain. Go hard. And die hard.