How to Be a Generalist in the Context of Generalism

Generalists have an easier time finding a partner because they relate to that task through the eyes of a problem solver who's trying to find the missing piece. A generalist doesn't know what problem they're trying to solve because it's almost like the problem itself has to be defined so do you have any dating advice for generalists or ways that we could think about constructing a life of meaning with commitment more generally? I'm not well versed in this work by any means but he called sliding not deciding where people never want to sort of make a decision and then just develop momentum and end up getting married.