How Do I Validate Another Person?

We all want the person that i'm speaking with to be able to hear me. And my goal isn't even to have them then agree with me or come to my side of the fence. My goal, or my hope, is just that they'll actual hear me. So it will also serve you to sit in an embodiment of curiosity,. Have your whole being and all your questions and all o your listening come from a space of curiosity and not challenge. Even if you're not physically in front of another even if you're on the phone with them or over a computer with them, be mindful of yourself. You could totally be emanating this existence that you're just in defense mode, that