How to Start a Private Online Community

I just realized there's a lot of people who want to connect with other people. And so I opened, it's on the Discord app or the platform where you can kind of create like a chat rooms. We kind of have some ground rules where like what is shared on Discord stays on Discord. But sometimes they'll share their stories of how their churches have hurt them but then other times they'll talk about like cooking recipes or like other different things. It doesn't necessarily have to be hard things all the time.