Why Does It Take So Long for a Woman to Listen the First 100 Times?

Why does it take some men and some women, obviously, so long to actually just listen the first time? I wish we could do a survey. The only thing i can come up with from all the men iave talked to about this is, i think it's a matter of how they sort things. So if you say, you never close the cabinet door, he's like, that's like number 100 on my list right now, right? It just goes in and out. And i think they think we're exaggerating things, which is so frustrating as a woman,. It's almost like they think we’re looking at things in a funhouse mirror, and we