Marriage Mechanisms for Resolving Disputs

In a marriage mechanisms for resolving disputes are things you work out very very early, ideally before you're married. I recommend couples choose who will be your mediator when there is an issue between you. My wife and I did that When we got married, we decided to choose somebody To my astonishment, she suggested my father He sided with her, not with me And it was great because in every case we were having obviously a bitter argument that necessitated us going to see my father So it was a pretty intense argument, but in each of the cases it was resolved calmly Because once he'd given his decision We smiled, okay fine, that's how it goes Even if you don't do