Is It Okay if I Send You a Gift?

"I find these thousand tiny cuts of ten percent emotional engagement are alike, are so vapid and so time consuming," she says. "If somebody sends you an emal to say, is it ok if i send you a gift? But now it's a burden... It's like, now do you want five of those?" 'i'm far from a perfect person,' writes the writer in her essay for The New York Times.