So I don't eat regularly anymore and that was due to working way too much screwed over by eating habits. It's hard for me to get myself to buy groceries regularly so I'd much rather get a cheat meal from fast food once a day if I'm feeling it maybe not. If you have a partner who wants you to be healthier how do you approach that? There are a couple of inherent problems the first is that the tools that she's working with like the assumptions that she has there are a lot of core assumptions that she may have never questioned. So what when she sees an unhealthy behavior her diagnosis of that behavior involves all kinds of stuff that may be very different from why you do