Keeping Score Is the Best Way to Kill a Relationship

When you don't receive love on a regular basis, your inner child says, well, i'm not receiving love, therefore, i must not be lovable. And so there's that piece. Some of the other patterns that we can see in this shockra are transactiona love. I'll give you this much love if you give me that much love, right where we're keeping score retreating. O keeping scores best way to kill a relationship, just for the record.

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