If they wanted to they would if they wanted to be in a relationship with you. And it has absolutely nothing to do with you. Your expectations are higher than what they want. It's like the opposite is they're not meeting your expectations. This whole period where like you've been chasing them sets up this weird power dynamic which is just gonna persist for yeah the duration of the relationship. But move on because you won't find that person that you'll be able to really care about until you move on from this person who clearly doesn't want that right now.