The Single Focus Versus the Connection

When a man is going to take us somewhere, you know, picks us up to take us out on a date or we live with him and he takes us out for dinner at a party, he is focused on getting there. And we being the Velcro of the universe are paying attention to wanting to connect with him,.Wanting to be intimate, making sure that we're linked together. Men do the same thing when they get home from work: They have to go through a transition ritual to get there. So if you see a man arranging the silverware and putting his glass in a particular place and everything like that, he's not there with you yet. Just wait quietly. When