How to Reduce Friction Post Retirement

You don't want to be dependent on each other all the time because that's a little bit too much right you've spent your whole career of kind of a part during the working days. So I call it me time or let's say this he time she time and we time right time for yourself time for herself and time for stuff you want to do together. Goes a long way to reducing friction post retirement as if she's out doing whatever she's doing you're not having any anxiety or you know envy or whatever.