The Importance of Setting a Standard

I'm not saying that it's a moral sin to work as a woman but I'm saying there needs to be a serious reason to justify it. For me the most attractive trait in a woman is if she likes me. She'd be a 65 year old of these women but if she's into me that's the most attractive thing because I hate you. And for me that's not the case guys into me I'm like oh gosh get over me please go away. So my husband has changed a ton and I think it's because we've seen the fruit in our marriage of me staying at home. No it was not great for our family. What were you seeing in your marriage