Community burn out is a very real thing, where you feel stretched thin across way too many communities. When i at my best and my happiest, i feel less comparison and a greater sense of self and self motivation. periodic reflection on the people you spend most time with is so, so important. It has the biggest impact on who you become. And dpeople change over time. We continue to evolve as individuals, and that is largely based on how we are nurtured. Nothing could be further from the truth when you actually think about it.