How We Love Our Kids, Dinny

Vulnerability is key to create trust and to create connectedness. I've asked the question frequently throughout my parenting, what is it like to be with me? What dies it like to have me as your dad? You know, is there anything you think i can't see or don't understand about you, anything else at that moment? And it's important for me to make that a a safe moment, wher i'm not defending it. It takes discernment on your part as a parent. Is this just a curiosity for a child to use this against you because there's anger and there's there's repair need in the relationship? Or is there really an opportunity for connectedness in