The Four Things You Need to Remember When You've Just Been Blindsighted by a Break Up

i always try to remember that when i'm going through something painful, is that it usually means that there's something really, really beautiful coming my way. We can't have something new coming unless we clear space for for it. Even the tiniest grain of hope in this scenario can help tremendously with our emotion. I mean, from all the break ups i went through to, you know, hitting rock bottom with alcoholism, to going through an assault, all those things have brought the most beautiful things into my life. But i can't tell you the importance of even if you don't really believe it, just keep it in the back of your head and just be willing to maybe think