How Do You Replace Someone's Narrative Without Taking Away Theirs?

I think it's very important, when you do that, to be cognizant of the fact that you are walking into some one's home and like writting up their most sacred book. So then how do you replace someone's without taking a narrative away? You gently and tactfully allow them to take away their own narrative at a pace that won't cause pain. Revolutions are violent and bloody, and often when they are over, the revolutionaries have nothing to fill the vacuum that they've created. And so we either have to be patient and work slowly at the parts of the narratives that are most pernicious or we have to be damned sure that when we rip that narrative away