Ready, Willing, but Unable
Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman
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The Importance of Physiological Hormones
If there's a history of trauma, abuse or abandonment around sex, that's going to cause a lack of desire and even a disassociation. You've got to make sure your hormones physiologically, you have the physiologic underpinning to one and a half sex. Anytime we do something that our bodies don't really want, we sort of leave it. We're not home anymore. We're thinking about art to-do lists. And sometimes that's a trauma reaction. It's bad, dirty, wrong. No, no. No, you don't have that disassociate from. So I think disassociation is secondary to your low desire, right?
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