I think the biggest problem that we have in society is that we seek validation from the wrong people. The internet has created a situation where most people look for validation from complete strangers over their own family members which is not good it's not a good thing to be. I would say first off and foremost really think about who it is that you are seeking validation from because if it's someone in your family or a friend who you look up to maybe is doing a little better than you maybe they can help you confirm that you feel in the right way, he says. "You make a decision based upon that let's talk about the elephant there"