The Importance of Saying What You Want

If you're in the pattern of actually being a partner who pays attention you don't also need as many grand gestures. It's just it's one of those things where literally women are not actually like because I've been in this situation. This is before Connor and I figured out the whole mental load thing. We had this conversation where it's like okay but just tell me what you want. And then when he was like oh and I was likeOh and then we got it. So this is what we're asking you to do is just say oh and get it.