I Don't Want to Date People, but I Want to Be Cool With Everything

You can't also promise that you're going to be cool with everything. It's not realistic for him to expect you to just be able to be comfortable in every situation. The thing that i draw boundas around is like, look, you can date this person. I don't particularly care for them, so i don't really want to hang out with them. And maybe that makes things awkward, but it also makes it awkward for you to have to deal with that. So if they come around, let me know so i can go out, or don't invite me to like, groups toc ause i don't want to do that kind of thing. You never know what