What Are You Reluctant to Surrender?

The other approach is to actually recognize that you have this craving within you, and then go about satisfying it in a non self destructive manner. The satisfaction of that desire does not make you complete or happy in some ultimate sense. You are still going to be facing with unhappiness. And ah, there still be many problems in your life, andyou'r so not going to feel complete. That's the second method. I think the second method is much more realistic for many people. Get clear about what you really crave, and get clear about what things are you willing to surrender without experiencing them. What things are you unwilling to surrender? What desires and cravings are you simply unwilling to