The Importance of Staying Together

"I think you'd need an outside facilitator to help you really do this, honestly," she says. "You're sending a message to him that why would he get help when he doesn't need to you stick around? You know, as long as you're willing to stay, he doesn't have to get help." He may not be cognitively aware of what's going on at the time but is thinking about it in terms of his own anger and frustration with being treated badly by others. She asks: Are you willing to at least get to know yourself with me? If can I ask you a ton of questions about your history?"