How to Make a Decision Yes or No - I Don't Have a Soul

A lot of people who sort of meet in the way you met her and hook up on the first night are doing it out of to be really frank out of loneliness avoidance. So yeah like she didn't want to be alone. But two days later three days later things have changed. These can all change her decisions and they're all perfectly valid for her. It's not I would say 80% of the time it's not about you. Maybe 70% of thetime it's notabout you. 30% it is about you. It's usually about her. Yeah that makes sense.