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140: Entanglement and Toxic Individualism with Aimée Gianni

Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell

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The Cost of Being a Pretender Self

"I was just really tired. She comes home around 10 o'clock at night, and in the back of my mind, like when she comes home, she's going to want to have sex," he says. "A pretend self can't connect genuinely with another person because I'm a pretend persona." He writes: "There's a cost on both sides, right? Like there's the cost of the honest, intimate and collaborative".

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